day 20: someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future

i don't have a definite step-by-step list, but past "relationships" and interests/attractions have taught me a few things about what i want to find someday (hopefully soon). kindness, honesty, and humility are key. sense of humor. intelligent. continually learning & educating himself. tolerance and respect and appreciation for all walks of life. desire to spend time outdoors. tech-savvy, but not obsessive about having the latest & greatest piece of hardware. also atleast somewhat competent at being a general handyman. willing to be up early enough to make coffee for me in the morning. likes to cuddle. weekend "date night" involves beer/wine & movies & warm blankets. sense of creativity/artistry. has unique and intriguing passions (and willing to teach me & include me in those passions). sense of & appreciation for athletics & exercise & healthy foods. decent hygiene but doesn't spend as much time in the bathroom as i do (scruffy is ok!). desire to travel & see the world. preferably familiar with ketchikan/southeast ak or loves it just as much as i do. doesn't have to be right all the time, or offended when proven wrong. self-confident. values family & friends. community involvement. hard worker.

and the list goes on, continually being updated as i discover new values...